The Purpose....

So, the purpose of Facebook and Myspace is to make friends and keep in contacting with all of those people you've lost over the years. You know the people, high school friends, old roommates, friends of your parents who you don't really talk to or like but want to add you anyways. So why is it when you get in touch with someone, they seem really excited to talk to you. Then you exchange email and phone numbers and vow to keep in touch that way, but when you take them up on that offer they always seem bothered by the fact that you want to talk. If they didn't want any of that, why do they say: "Hey, call me later?" or "Text me sometime." Because you know as soon as you do they start with the small talk then suddenly they are too busy. It's crap like that that really bugs the piss out of me.

Why tell someone you miss them if you didn't want them to continue talking to you? Really, what's the purpose and point of doing any of that. I have this friend who out of know where decided he wanted to talk to me. Mind you, I haven't talked to him in close to 8 years. Not since he kinda blew me off to talk to his girlfriend leaving me watching a movie with his mom sitting in the chair next to me.

So he messages me, and of course, I am absolutely thrilled to talk to him. It's always good to talk to people you haven't talked to in a really long time. And things are going well and he's like "I miss you, we should talk more. Maybe you could call or text me." So obviously I take that as an invitation to keep in contact with him. So, I do. Things start off pretty good, you know, catching up on old times, talking about things that are going on now. You know, the standard procedure for this sort of thing. Then a few days go by and he hasn't responded to a text yet, so I send one saying "Hey what's up." Then things go down hill. He starts ignoring me. After taking advice from a friend, I decided to ask him a vital question, does he have a girlfriend. Now, most of you might think, what's it matter you're married anyways. Well let me inform all of you. Guys DO NOT know how to be friends with a girl while having a girlfriend. IF any guy, who's not gay, says he can he's lying so he can sleep with you.

So I guess you can see where I'm going with this. It's like that night with the movie, that I mentioned early, all over again. He can't handle wanting to be with his girl and the fact that one of his friends is a girl. So he goes, "I'm super busy right now." He's not busy, he just doesn't really want to talk to you. It's like men go to a special school on how to be jerks to girls. If this is the case, then I'd like to disban that school right away. I don't want my son growing up thinking it's okay to be like this to girls.